Blame, bitterness and anger are the ego’s solutions to bitterness and anger. The ego’s solutions only sound sane to an insane world. If you think of another and bitter and angry thoughts come to mind, because we are all One, these thoughts of “others” are still flowing through you, only hurting and punishing you. It is only when you consciously start valuing peace and joy more than this self inflicted pain and punishment, that you will do the opposite of what the ego’s world demands you do.